I often hear people blame their difficulties on their parents and how they were treated when they grew up. You know the story, right? My daddy didn’t love me! My parents didn’t give me the love or encouragement I needed, therefore the troubles I’m going through today aren’t really my fault, right? Daddy didn’t treat…
You know there’s a whole lot more to being honest with yourself than simply getting rid of fear, though that is a massive subject of its own. Since we are on the thought, how about those other categories of our lives? You know what I mean, right? Those pesky little “hold-backs” that put roadblocks and…
One of the great deceptions of the human race is that little thing called,” lying to yourself!” You know how it goes. You are afraid of something and then you make those bravado declarations like, “I’m not scared of anything!” Yet on the inside, you know it aint true. Now maybe you don’t want…
The family was in town from Kansas City and Denver for the bi-annual family reunion. So, I decided before everyone came to Utah that I was going to spend the time thinking of nothing else but my family and that I was going to be fully present and enjoy every moment we had together. I…
Personally I think the catch-all diagnoses of ADD and ADHD are over-rated. Now hang on before you toss out your Ritalin! Our modern-day theme for handling our issues seems to be based on being diagnosed with some condition, then being assigned to it entirely and then adding that you were born with it. I mean after all I…
Been awhile, I must say, since a blog has bubbled out of me, but it’s time! Haha Have you ever seen the bumper stickers that say, “No Fear?” Great advice for living, but saying it and living it are two totally different animals. Fear is perhaps the most detrimental thing that can happen to a…
We’re all familiar with cause and effect, right? If you introduce a certain cause then you get a certain effect. If you mix two parts hydrogen with one part oxygen you get water, over and over and over again. But, what if the cause isn’t related to the effect? What if what you think is…
So the very wise and successful La Detra White posed the question, “Does THE THIRD DRINK really change us ….. or in disguise does it bring out what indeed was always there?” An enticing question, I’m sure you would agree. I think I just heard Carrie Bradshaw saying it and the end of Sex and…
If you have been living long enough at some point you realize that you do many things the same way over and over again. Oh we don’t do it on purpose, but our tidy little pre-programmed brain stores up the information and spits it back out on demand. So we develop habits; many, many habits…